When a couple first gets together there may be an abundance of sexual activity going on. If you have enjoyed a healthy sex life for most of your marriage but things have slowly (or suddenly) take a turn for the worse, you may find yourself in a sexless marriage. A sexless marriage could be a marriage that is in trouble, but it doesn’t always mean that. There are several reasons that a couples sex life begins to diminish. Let’s explore some of those reasons.
If the issue in your marriage is that your husband doesn’t want to have sex then the first conclusion you may come to is that he is being unfaithful. Perhaps you are concerned that he just doesn’t find you sexually attractive anymore. However, it may be neither of these things. A man can develop issues with erectile dysfunction at any age. For him to admit it may be something extremely hard to do and so they may just avoid sex altogether and seek treatment without you knowing. The only way to find out is to sit down and talk about it. Since it may be hard for him to admit to bedroom troubles, it is up to you to initiate such a conversation.
When it comes to a woman not wanting to have sex, men think the same way; either you don’t find him sexually attractive anymore or that you are being unfaithful. These things can be true on either side, but once again, there are also more plausible possibilities as well. Many women have trouble with their hormone balance. This can kill the sex drive very quickly. For some women, intercourse is painful for whatever reason and they just doesn’t want to discuss it with their husbands the same way husbands may not want to discuss their sexual problems. And once again, it is always best to openly and honestly talk about it. By doing so you are relieving worries for the both of you and perhaps you can find a way to help each other.
The third reason that a couple could fall into a sexless marriage is that the spice has gone out of the relationship. This does not mean that they should give up on their marriage though. Too many couples get divorced over such things but it does not have to be that way. Once again, this is a situation where the only way to fix things is talking them over. Even though it is hard to tell your spouse that your sex life has become stale, it is much better to do so rather than calling it quits on a relationship that should have lasted a lifetime. There are so many ways that you can spice up your marital sex life and it all rests upon your ability and willingness to communicate with your partner. A sexless marriage does not have to end in a divorce. Even though it may be hard to bring up the topic, it will be even worse to lose the person you are in love with.
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